I was taken aback when my boss’s boss asked me to do something at work that I consider borderline unethical. It involved using my skills to create something for his personal benefit and in no way work-related.
In hindsight I should have questioned the request, but I didn’t want to be disrespectful to my boss’s boss. Although I felt uncomfortable, I did it anyway, but it’s still bothering me. I’m even questioning whether I want to stay with this organization. Should I keep this to myself or tell my supervisor?
Whether it’s printing 100 color flyers for a garage sale or getting the IT guy to use the company discount code to buy a computer for personal use, some employees will find a way to use company resources for personal use/gain. And if they’re in a position of power (like your example) they’re able to enlist unwilling subordinates to take part.
Now, you have two options:
Talk to your supervisor, discuss your concerns and deal with the fallout. Going by most company handbooks, employees should talk to their supervisor (or someone up the chain), if something at work makes them feel uncomfortable or seems wrong (i.e. safety, ethics, harassment, dishonesty, bullying). This is the way to go if you think the situation warrants it. However don’t kid yourself about the consequences, and be prepared for some likely backlash. Sure, most companies prohibit retaliation following a complaint, but -now that you’re persona non grata- you can expect some very uncomfortable moments around your boss’s boss.
Next option:
Keep this to yourself. A long time ago, I wanted to right every wrong and correct every injustice. But that proved to be unsustainable (and absolutely no fun). So I learned to proverbially “pick my battles.” But, which battle we pick is a very personal choice.
So before deciding, ask yourself: Why is this bothering me? Because I believe in the organization’s core values and this individual is degrading them, so I’m willing to stick my neck out? Or am I upset because I feel duped, and regret doing it?
Whatever you decide, you’ll certainly know what to do next time someone’s request makes you uncomfortable. Question it.
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