It’s that time of the year again. The workplace holiday party is upon us. And in spite of writing about this topic several times, I continue to hear cringe-inducing stories of morning-after regret. Therefore, I consider it my HR Pro duty to provide this general refresher of dos and don’ts:
FOR EMPLOYEES
Do remember that everyone’s cellphone is also a camera and sharing device. Lots of pictures will be taken and posted -beyond your control- on social media. Act accordingly.
Do make an effort to meet people you normally don’t work with.
Do put away your phone. Don’t be that person constantly checking their messages, you’re not that important. Plus it makes it look like you don’t know how to interact with others.
Don’t skip the party. Others may get the impression you’re anti-social or consider yourself above such gatherings. Do stay at least an hour.
Don’t take yourself too seriously. Do wear something festive. It’s fun to see coworkers with Santa hats or antlers.
Don’t talk about politics, sex, religion or anything controversial like Obamacare, gay marriage or legalizing marijuana. Also avoid depressing topics like natural disasters, death and famine. Safe ground includes travel, hobbies, pets and family.
Don’t do anything anyone could interpret as provocative, including flirting, suggestive dancing (no twerking!), off color jokes. Do I need to say more?
Don’t have more than two alcoholic drinks, and even that may be too much for some. Most of the trouble I see originates here.
Don’t talk seriously about work, this is a time to chill and relate to others as individuals.
FOR EMPLOYERS
Do recognize employee achievements. This is a great time for showing appreciation.
Do show sensitivity to cultural diversity in your workforce. Provide a wide range of food choices, including vegetarian and vegan fare.
Do offer some sort of designated driver or cab service, especially if there’s company-provided alcohol.
Do remind your supervisors not to get too touchy or huggy.
FOR EVERYONE
Do have a good time. Mingle, be a good listener, sing a carol, have a laugh and compliment someone.
And Do enjoy the holiday spirit!
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